Me and the Whispering Beast of Writer’s Block by Suicide Blonde

July 21, 2013 § 1 Comment


Kill the Word Beast by Molly Crabapple

Writing about writer’s block because you have writer’s block is an old trick, but let’s see what I can add to this exhaustively long conversation.

When I was younger writing fiction was my favorite past time. I would spend all of my free hours in some cubby, writing story after story. I was writing mainly fanfiction, though I didn’t know what fanfiction was, or that other people wrote stories in already established universes. I worked on one story from Grade 7 to Grade 10 and just stopped one day. The story had been my obsession, then suddenly became something I loathed to the point of disgust. It still sits unfinished in a closet.

I never considered the idea of actually becoming a writer until I got to college. Once there, I realized I could take the thing I had always done for my own enjoyment and get class credit for it. I took every writing class I could take and wrote prolifically under the pressure of assignments and due dates. I was listening to a lot of Tori Amos, reading a lot of Leonard Cohen and Anne Rice so most of the things I wrote in college were angst-filled, indecipherable train of thought pieces, with true meanings that only I understood. I was very proud of all these pieces, and they got me good grades. They ended up convincing me that I had a path laid in front of me that would end in becoming a professional writer.

I ended my college career by having a nervous breakdown and having to drop out just 3 classes shy of my degree. I spent the next couple of years trying to keep my head above water in terms of money and mental health. The escape that had been writing left me. The crush of expectations had a lot to do with why I dropped out of school. These expectations also took my confidence in my writing from me. I would start to write and freeze up, trembling with anxiety. After a few abortive attempts, I gave up trying at all. I had a friend tell me that they knew one day I was going to be a famous writer. My stomach turned sour hearing this. I knew I had talked so much about my writing that now everyone around me believed this lie. I knew the truth. I had gone back and re-read the things I had written in college and tore them to shreds, literally and figuratively. I knew that I was a fraud, that my writing was weak, never good enough.

This is the whispering monster that still sits on my shoulder today. I’m not a good writer. My thoughts are scattered, my disjointed brain causes the words that I need to come out in jolting, discordant sentences. I had been told in my non-fiction writing class that everyone had a story that deserved to be heard but I knew the truth. No one wanted to hear what I had to say.

This deafening doubt sits on my shoulder heavily today. It convinces me to delete anything I think I should share. It takes the ideas I have for something to write about and shreds it to pieces, tells me all the reasons why I’m a hack, why nothing I think of is original or insightful or clever.

So I’m going to dedicate this section of words to my self-doubt. I have silenced myself because of you, lack of confidence. I have berated myself because of you, assurance of failure. To you, fear of achievement, I give you these words, and the next words and the next. It’s not up to you or me if this is worth saying. These words will exist anyways.

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Photo-a-day: July 20th, 2013

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Photo-a-day: July 20th, 2013

Vegan cookie and coffee

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Photo-a-day: July 19th, 2013

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Today is mine and Bohemea’s sex-a-versary. We celebrated with a lavender vegan cupcake.

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Photo-a-day: July 18th, 2013

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Arundel Mansion in New Westminster

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Photo-a-day: July 17th, 2013

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Thrifting finds for today: two pairs of tights, tub flowers, decorative rainbow, knit teddy change purse, peach wayfarers, Rolling Stone t-shirt, black bustier, two apple dishtowels

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Photo-a-day: July 16th, 2013

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Scored two retro books from my childhood whilst thirfting today.

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Photo-a-day: July 15th, 2013

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Photo-a-day: July 15th, 2013

this picture of a heritage house next to a park looking a little Hitchcockian

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